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RJamesLivin
57 Sacramento, California, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 64
I am unable to read messages here. If we like one another and decide to chat, we can do so on IG unless u have a paid account. Or via g mail if that is preferred. Note: Despite any good stuff in my profile, I am not anywhere close to perfect, whether in reality or in my mind. Intelligent, loving, caring, funny, confident (yet down to earth), ambitious, empathetic, social, attractive, educated (MBA, JD), kind, sensitive, romantic, creative, authentic, healthy and fit. I enjoy entertaining people and making people laugh. Friends and strangers tell me I have a great sense of humor. I love to have fun and enjoy being around people in all types of circumstances. In the last thirty years, I have gone from a person who tended to avoid others to (what my friends say is) an amazing conversationalist who can adapt to any situation. I have become a person who makes friends and strangers feel at ease. I can work any room and am comfortable at any event or function, whether fun or serious, blue or white collar, formal or casual, etc. People often tell me I have great energy. I enjoy sightseeing, travel, theater, art galleries, movies, pub crawls, dancing, charity and company events, volunteer work, playing piano and guitar, improvising music, singing, reading, gardening, traveling, bicycling, sailing and home improvement work. I have been on advisory boards for charities and have been the president of a major commercial real-estate members' organization. I have given legal seminars, acted and sang on stage, acted on film and even modeled (as average-guy look) for a photo shoot on stage at a training seminar for professional photographers (and was never called back - Lol). My hair is longer right now. But I will cut it short for you (if you prefer) when we are exclusive or when (and if) I go back to working in a high-end law firm, whichever comes first. I go back and forth from clean shaven to short beard right now. I think I have at least eight jobs I do throughout the year and I seem to always be helping someone. I continually strive to be a better man. In everything I do, I have learned to let go and not be so worried about being in control; I'm trying to be more courageous. I am working on seeing challenges as a positive opportunity for growth. I make a conscious effort at speaking "positive" into the lives of those I touch every day. I'm taking more time to have fun and am riding my bike more than ever. In the last five years, I have been a professional mover, a handyman, a window washer on fifteen million dollar homes in places like Santa Barbara and the Napa Valley, designed and constructed the tenant improvements in a massage parlor and a portion of a bar/restaurant, worked for a caterer, assisted with working on flipper houses, staged a home for sale, provided pro-bono legal assistance to a domestic abuse victim with regard to her child custody matter, designed about 80%+ of the layout and display of a high-end lingerie store . . . and more. (Just can't seem to focus - LOL.) I practiced commercial real-estate law for 20 years (top 5% at an ABA-accredited law school) at a high level. During that time I gained a reputation as a very competent drafter and negotiator, conducted advanced legal seminars, wrote legal articles and even drafted legislation. Now I am real good at doing what I want. Good at connecting with people and connecting people with one another, Karaoke, helping others and dancing to live music. I am pretty good at thinking outside the box. (Like the first time I had a date over to my house for dinner many many years ago. I went to open a bottle of wine and realized that I did not have a corkscrew. I calmly went into the other room and came back with a power drill, hammer and drywall screw. I took my power drill and plugged it in like a kitchen appliance and used it to screw the drywall screw into the cork. I then took my hammer claw and pulled the cork out by the screw. She told me later that is when she fell in love with me. Years later, we have three beautiful adult girls. I was married for 17 years and have been divorced for over seven years.) I believe I have become a really good listener and good at loving people. And... I am really good at communicating, having a great time, at being playful and at being professional when appropriate.
Joseph
38 San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 38
Allow me to introduce myself—a man of integrity and unwavering spirit in search of adventures, who greatly values nature. With a heart full of passion and a love for exploration, I find peace in the beauty of nature and the thrill of new experiences. By my side is my 11-year-old son, an occasional companion who fills my life with joy and wonder. My journey through life has been one of discipline and dedication, shaped by my service in the United States Marine Corps. As a former machine gunner in the infantry, I completed multiple missions in Iraq, an experience that has instilled in me a deep sense of resilience and unwavering commitment. Today, I find myself in the vibrant city of San Francisco, a place that aligns with my thirst for knowledge and my love for staying fit. The active lifestyle I lead is a direct result of my military experience, a testament to my enduring determination. Beyond the routine, I'm an avid reader who constantly seeks to broaden my horizons and engage my intellect. A highlight of my life is sharing memorable moments with my son. We visit museums and explore the multitude of parks that grace our city, creating bonds that enrich our lives and fuel our imagination. As I look beyond borders, I yearn to connect with kindred spirits around the world. I'm not only seeking a romantic connection, but I also desire to form meaningful friendships. One of my aspirations is to be fluent in multiple languages, opening doors for cultural exchange. With this in mind, the possibility of connecting through FaceTime for language lessons is especially appealing; I'm more than willing to share my English proficiency. If the stars align and our paths intertwine, I envision a journey of mutual growth, exploration, and the creation of cherished memories. Life's chapters are meant to be written together, and I'm excited about the possibility of crafting a beautiful story with you.

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