I take each challenge as it comes. Enjoy nice things & the company of nice people. I think it is human nature to want to change something about their partner, even if they are as close to perfection as is possible. If you want something that is beyond your wildest imagination well that's what I am about. Most people dream of achieving something just out of their grasp. Just want to remind you of one thing. If you block me because you think that having a second wife is wrong you are blocking/denying one small part in the Quran. If you deny a single letter in the Qur'an, you are out of the folds of Islaam. I urge us, myself first to tread very carefully. Maybe we dislike something that Allaah likes for us.We are grown up intelligent people. Beyond the obvious internal battles, why would a believer reject another believer, because he wanted to revive a Sunnah i.e. fulfilling the Sunnah of taking a second wife.