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muslim
36 Bromley, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking: Female
Appearance: Average
love each other for Allah’s sake What does it mean to love each other for Allah’s sake? It means you make the love and obedience of Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) the basis and focus of your relationship with someone else. It means you love someone so much that you want your love for them to last beyond this lifetime and into the Hereafter, where you can live in eternal happiness with them having earned Allah’s pleasure together. It means you love someone purely because of how much they remind you of Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) and help you get closer to Him. Hold it right there. I know what you just thought: “but my wife/husband doesn’t remind me of Allah at all.” A lot of people who marry each other even for primarily religious reasons end up disappointed after marriage when they suddenly find their spouse not praying all the sunnah prayers (like they thought they would) or reading the Qur’an everyday or the morning and evening adhkar or fasting Mondays and Thursdays or being excited about attending halaqahs or praying tahajjud or doing something for the Ummah – like they thought they would. Our own restrictions of spirituality to acts of physical or outward worship blind us from seeing how much our spouses contribute to improving our character, which is an unsurpassed form of spiritual growth, because the Prophet ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) says: “Nothing is placed on the Scale that is heavier than good character. Indeed the person with good character will have attained the rank of the person of fasting and prayer.”
Josh
49 Hounslow, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking: Female 18 - 49
Appearance: Average
WARNING: THIS IS A LONG PROFILE! (you have been warned now! :-) ) Hi, and welcome! :) Let me give you two options, and make it easy for you:I'll give you a "SHORT PROFILE" first... and then, if you like what you read, you can keep scrolling and read more in the "LONG PROFILE" which follows after that. Deal? Damn right it is! 👍 Ok... let's dive in and get started with the 'SHORT PROFILE'! You ready? GO!! -------------- SHORT PROFILE: -------------- I'm 48 years old, but I don't look it. I blame my mother's wonderful genetics, and her teaching me the importance of laughter, and not taking things too seriously (I often joke that I'm not really 48, but 18... and I've been practising being 18 for 30 years now, so I've gotten pretty good at it! 🤭). Believe it or not, but I've never been married. I had a 21 year relationship which ended about about 2.5 years ago. I have a 15 year old son, who also lives here in London, with his mother. I'm deeply passionate, a total romantic, and genuinely very thoughtful. These are traits I truly embody, and at the same time, I'm also highly sensual and intensely sexual; you are a woman, and I will make sure you feel like one, in every way! I'm a non-smoker, and if you're a woman who smokes, I'm sure you're a wonderful lady but... you'll make it a real struggle for me to share your space together. So please quit! :) 🚭 I'm half Italian / half American (I hold dual citizenship and 2 passports 🇮🇹🇺🇸), and I also speak French 🇫🇷 and Spanish 🇪🇸, in addition to my native Italian / English. I live in London, but I'm an adventurer; who knows if I'll stay here forever? I would much enjoy moving to a location with a warmer climate and by the sea... (much like my own native city!). I worked as a Prisoner Escort for the Ministry of Justice, and now work as a Close Protection Operative (which means 'bodyguard'). 😎💪 I am looking for a woman to share our lives together... but I'm certainly not desperate, nor am I going to rush into it without knowing her, and feeling a connection to her.⚠️ Age is NOT a factor. You may be just 20 or even 50, but this doesn't matter because connection and feelings know no age - maturity or an exciting personality are not tied in to a number! 💘 And don't even think about scamming me; a cute 18 year old sexy girl doesn't make me go crazy. You've been warned... lol. 🤣 Also, I get way too many messages; I simply can't answer them all. 📨 So, one line messages, vacant profiles, or monosyllabic replies... sorry, but I can't engage you. I'm making an effort, so I need you to do the same. 🏆🥇 You don't have a picture? See the previous point. 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨Besides, how in the world do you expect to be successful on a dating site without a photo??🤷🏼‍♂️ (And while your picture can grab my attention AT FIRST, you MUST understand that only your personality shining throughout our conversations will keep my interest! This is fundamental.) *********** Ok, so you got through that 'Short Profile'! Well done! 🎉 Congratulations! 🥇🏆 Now you can move on to the 'Long Profile'... if you dare! (No, really... DO read the Long Story, too. It's worth it! I promise! If you don't, you'll miss out on discovering all my amazing awesomeness! *shameless self propaganda*) 😉 ------------------------- 'LONG PROFILE' ------------------------- (...and with second warning: it's long!! So no excuse now... lol) So.... I told myself that in order to intrigue you, I had to write a brief bio that was: full of humour, thoughtful, deep, spiritual, original, powerful, articulate, elegant... something compelling and captivating. How can I stand out, and catch your attention, amidst so many other men who are billiionaires, look like Brad Pitt, and have a 12-pack abs showcasing their best? This Shrek must find some way to compete against all these other 'Christian Grey' opponents!! But there was no way was it going to be a BRIEF bio, if I did that. And in thinking through these considerations... I realised I had just described myself. A thinker gifted with intellect and reason, a man who appreciates the pursuit of knowledge per se - whether academic, technical, or more abstract. And a natural, genuine man who is comfortable with himself, sorted, and emotionally stable. I enjoy observing the world around me, and indeed, even observing how other people observe one another; it teaches us much about not being judgmental. I'm 48 years old, but my boyish looks easily allow me to look 10 or more years young on a good day, and my spirit, energy, and interests are even more contemporary. Most of my friends and social circle consist of people in their late 20s and early 30's - I'm just "young" inside, but experienced, grounded, and mature! Honestly, you couldn't get more genuine proof that age truly is just a number. I consider this youthfulness an extraordinary blessing from my mother, since I inherited her genetics, and she taught me to never take things too seriously in life. I worked as a Detainee Custody Officer with the Home Office, in a small unit. I then worked as a Prisoner Escort for the Ministry of Justice. Today, I work in the Private Security industy as a Close Protection Officer (aka 'bodyguard'). I can say I love that it challenges me everyday to be fair, impartial, and be able to build rapport with people from all walks of life, but also to be tough, alert, and ready to react. It's a continual growth process. Plus, I admit that being an adrenaline junkie, I totally love the thrill of the risk! Seriously! Over the last 3 years, I have been building a successful financial trading business for myself, and I am at the point where in the next 6 months I will be able to live very comfortably and without without any financial worries, thanks to the income I generate. My success in this will allow me to follow my dreams now that I am still young, and live a richer, more varied life full of exciting new experiences. I love freedom, and the ability to express my own personality. I see life as a journey in which my goal is to grow and evolve, but I am not materialistic - I recognise that abundance comes as a result of success... and have enjoyed some of the perks that have come with it, even though in the past I've found myself in some periods of struggle. I am a non-smoker, I have never been married (despite a long relationship). My friends would readily call me an engaging conversationalist, a bit of a joker with a sharp sense of humour, a gentle demeanour, a calm vibe, and someone who's light-hearted and never taking myself - or anything - too seriously. But they also said, 'Josh is a unique mix between: a racing car, an excited puppy, and the secret surprise hiding behind door number 3...' (really! I asked them to define me, and this is what they came up with!). I'd say they pretty much nailed it, although there is more: I would define myself as fair, altruistic, keenly observant, supremely patient, and diplomatically honest. I don't like failure, I do not condone laziness, and am not one who is content on settling for mediocrity. Non-confrontational by nature, I do prefer defusing a situation through communication and a respectful open-mindedness... but if that fails, or I witness a wrongdoing or injustice, I will fight with every ounce of determination I possess, to stand up for what is fair, and protect what is dear to me. And that includes you: if the going gets tough, you can count on me to loyally be by your side, and we will "get through this" together. I am gentle and calm, but don't make the mistake of thinking that also means weak or scared; it doesn't, at all. I've just become very good at communicating and understanding others, so that I can sort things out peacefully. But if needed, the warrior within is ready to protect. In my life's experiences, I have forged a strong and courageous heart - this is true - but life has also taught me to be compassionate, show undying loyalty, dream of beautiful romance, and be joyously warm of character. Though there is depth and intellect to my character, I am actually rather simple and uncomplicated. I'm equally prone to laughing at you because you knocked over a priceless vase at a museum, just as I can be up all night talking with you - and LISTENING to you - as you share your passion with me for marine biology. Yes, I have put on some weight since my younger days, but I am in the process of regaining my shape. When I'm at peak fitness, I tend to be very physical, and usually have a tremendous energy level, but don't let that scare you - I do not expect you to follow me to Mt. Everest next Sunday morning, and be back in time for tea! However, please understand that sometimes I may need my own space and downtime, as you will certainly need yours. So, while tonight it's snuggles on the sofa with Netflix, a duvet, and chocolate muffin crumbs all over the place... tomorrow it's the gym, and roaming about the city living the excitement of life's wonders! It's always a question of balance; no extreme is good.
Nikman
34 Hammersmith and Fulham, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking: Female
Appearance: Average
I'm a scientist based in London. I play football, badminton and guitars. I love gym workout, music, making music, travelling, cooking. I am an open book, always have been. I have my shortcomings, but I believe my other attributes are as much. Since I am a scientist, I have this tendency to be highly logical in my reasoning.. Rest assured, I am no robot either (but robots are cool though). I can safely say that I am loyal to a fault, close with my family members, have a couple of friend circles that many people describe nowadays as 'BFFs' (roll eyes emoji here). Although looking fancy with a PHD on my forehead, don't be alarmed. I got all my qualifications through luck and grabbed opportunities. I am not that smart. Most women here mentioned about wanting a 'fun and funny guy'. So let me put it out there; I am funny and have always been a joker in all of my social circles. However, the fun part depends on perspectives (and culture differences). These are the only things I am proud of myself: my athletism, me playing football, me living alone for many many years far from my family, my survival instincts, my ability to type this without looking, my body (as if!) and my lame jokes. OK just a little bit more; I don't have an obsessive compulsive disorder, nor do I have a perfectionism persona. I just like to see, neat and, in an orderly fashion. Oh I am not into fashion. I am still wearing the same pile of clothes from last year (but they are clean, maybe cleaner than yours lols jk). I just don't like to use my brain to think when choosing outfits every time. I like shoes, only to look at and window shop. There is a pair of shoes that I still use from 3 years ago. so can you see now? don't talk to me about loyalty. My own characteristics personify that word gleefully. Yes. That is one word I just used, and googled. So it's legit. Okay now I can sleep. AND I HATE BEANSPROUTS!

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