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Hi im Mark, I'm a standard member at the moment cant read email's. As this seems more of a real site than some of the others that i have been on, I'm contemplating upgrading. Full disclosure I have health issues, I also suffer from depression at times. I work in local government in the UK Even though im an atheist i respect others beliefs i allow others to make their own choices in life and would never force my beliefs on anyone else, thats called respect. Looking for someone with strong family values, I don't get on with women in my own country as they have lost site that family is everything not their career. Which there is nothing wrong with wanting to be the best you can be so long as you don't loose sight of what life is about Self-Confidence As someone with high self-confidence, you feel quite comfortable interacting with other people. Indeed, you find the company of others very stimulating and enjoy meeting new people. Your relaxed demeanor in groups makes people around you comfortable too. Perhaps because you feel comfortable talking about yourself, others tend to enjoy being around you and perceive you as socially competent. The confidence that helps you feel comfortable talking to people also spills into your own personal beliefs about yourself. Although you have several strengths, it’s likely that you also acknowledge and accept your weaknesses. But unlike some people, you take full responsibility for your actions—you rarely regret things you’ve done in the past and are not embarrassed easily. Perhaps the defining feature that sets you apart from most people is the exceptionally high standards that you set for yourself. Your competence in social gatherings as well as at work should provide ample evidence for this. With these characteristics, it’s very likely that people come to you for advice and generally think of you as someone with leader-like qualities. Family Orientation As someone who respects family values, you tend to enjoy the company of family-members and are open to living a domestic life. If you have children already, you enjoy spending time with them very much and work hard to be a good parent, but may occasionally wish to “cut-loose” and let your true colors show. If you don’t have children, you probably desire having a family sometime in the distant future. Although you occasionally enjoy cooking at home, you also like going to restaurants. This has the potential to create added stress as you transition into parenthood. You are attracted to the idea of having a family and may be willing to work hard to achieve this, although not necessarily any time soon. This conflict is illustrated by the fact that you don’t mind doing things around the house—like cooking and entertaining guests—on the one hand. But, on the other hand, you also like going to restaurants and parties. It’s possible that in time you might prefer spending time at home more because you won’t feel like you’re missing anything when you don’t go out. One aspect of yourself that makes you likely to become more family oriented is that you generally know how to manage your frustrations and work well on your own. This means that you have some of the basic ingredients to enjoy family life. Maintaining a tidy home, keeping a well-stocked kitchen, and making sure the kids are safe is a tough job. So attending to these things, while also taking care of yourself, may prove somewhat difficult for you. Self-Control The self-control personality dimension captures the way in which a person regulates and directs him or herself. Being low in self-control can be both good and bad. Occasionally people may be compelled to follow their intuitions and give in to their temptations, and your degree of self-control makes this likely to happen more often than not. This can be good in circumstances where being relaxed and open are important. However, in situations where it is necessary to be focused and careful, you might find that you do or say things that may be inappropriate. As someone who exerts little control over your actions, you may find that you commit social blunders that might offend other people and get yourself in trouble. For example, if you’re given responsibility to work on a project that requires close attention to detail, you may be likely to overlook important details because you have difficulty staying focused. Consequently, you might feel more comfortable delegating such tasks to other people who are more detail oriented. Being able to recognize such characteristics in yourself and having more detail-oriented people do such tasks could be an effective way to manage your own stress level. Low self-control may diminish your effectiveness at work. Acting too relaxed can make it difficult for you to focus on projects that require organized sequences of steps or stages. Thus, your ability to accomplish may be inconsistent. Indeed, it’s possible that you might be criticized periodically for being unreliable or unable to “stay within the lines.” Nonetheless, you may still experience many short-lived pleasures and never be thought of as boring. Openness As someone high in openness, you have a strong appreciation for beauty, both in art and nature. Indeed, it’s likely that you are easily absorbed in music and art, as well as natural phenomena. Another aspect of your openness is your emotional insight; that is, you probably have good access to and awareness of your own emotions. Another aspect of the openness dimension is the tendency to think about abstract concepts and ideas. This thinking style may take the form of artistic and metaphorical use of language, and/or music composition or performance. Thus, it is likely that, either in your work or spare time, you enjoy activities that get your “creative juices” flowing. Your tendency to be open-minded can have advantages and disadvantages. For instance, when there are no clear rules about how to approach a particular problem, your openness makes it easier for you to identify new ways to solve problems that might not be very obvious to people that are not as open as you are. In contrast, you may be bored easily in situations that lack high amounts of intellectual stimulation. In such cases, you might have difficulty excelling on projects that do not provide much stimulation or require much creative thinking. Easygoingness Easygoingness refers to one's ability to relax. Based on your score, you appear to “take things as they come” and enjoy having a good time. However, being high in easygoingness also has the potential to produce stress in a number of ways. For example, you may find it difficult to complete tasks thoroughly and efficiently. In this way, being high in easygoingness cannot only make your life difficult, but also the lives of the people around you. Another potential problem with being too high in easygoingness is that it can provide you with gratification in the short-term, but in the long-term provide undesirable consequences. High easygoingness, even when not seriously destructive, may also diminish your effectiveness at work, for example. You may find it aversive and difficult to put in all the effort that may sometimes be needed to effectively accomplish certain tasks. For this reason, your colleagues might view you as forgetful and unfocused. How does your personality affect your love life? Given the strong degree of confidence that you have, it’s no surprise that you get along well with most people. Indeed, it’s self-confidence that allows people to feel comfortable interacting with others without feeling insecure and vulnerable. For this reason, you shouldn’t have much difficulty in romance, at least not initially. Your social skills will likely help relieve any anxiety your romantic partners might have on those first few dates. However, over time, the high standards that you have for yourself could potentially frustrate your partner. Because you respect family values but appreciate a good night out on the town, you probably get along well with people that are different from you. For this reason, you would probably be quite content in a romantic relationship with someone who shares your same values on these issues. Being in a relationship with someone who enjoys going out to parties and staying-up late at night might be fun, at least initially; yet it’s likely that you will find this tiring over time. Thus, it might be easier and more satisfying for you to develop a long-lasting relationship with a person who enjoys both spending time at home and going out to eat. As someone who is more relaxed than most people, you likely get along with most people quite well. Chances are that your friends and colleagues perceive you as lively, fun to be with, and good-humored. When it comes to romance, you’ll likely be attracted to most people. However, your free-spirited nature might make being in a relationship with a person that is more rigid than you difficult because you might perceive the person as being too uptight and controlling. Your openness probably makes it easy for you to respect and appreciate people that are different from you. However, when it comes to romantic relationships, your openness might make it difficult for you to tolerate people that cannot appreciate diversity as much as you. Therefore, you may be happiest in serious relationships with people that share your open-mindedness. But, your openness might occasionally cause a certain degree of dependency on your end because you may be so open that you easily adopt the preferences and habits of your partners and gradually relinquish things that make you so unique.

I’m a good hard working man who works 2 weeks on and 2 weeks off all year, I work as a scaffolder, when I’m off work most of time is spent with my kids whom I love to bits, I’m into motorbikes and fishing and getting together with my friends.

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OK. Just to be clear. I am looking for a long term relationship. My dream is to get married and have my own family. So please. If you are not serious about wanting a future and a family please don't waste my time or yours. Again. I am looking for some one I can get to know. Have a relationship and hopefully get married and have a family together. If you are looking for the same thing and thing we might get along then message me. I don't mind if 18-40 as long as want a future and a family. My friends say I have a big heart. I just really want to give it to some one. Hope you are all OK and having a nice day. Speak soon and take care. Maybe we chat SnoopGodly if you want to talk :) x oh. I am 30 years old and was born December 30 in 1987. It won't let me change this and I don't know why :(

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Kind, genuine and down to earth man. I can detect a scam a mile off. I'm looking for a serious relationship. In the short to medium term living and working in the UK but would like to find somebody who's prepared to move back to the Philippines/tropics when I've retired.

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I'm a scientist based in London. I play football, badminton and guitars. I love gym workout, music, making music, travelling, cooking. I am an open book, always have been. I have my shortcomings, but I believe my other attributes are as much. Since I am a scientist, I have this tendency to be highly logical in my reasoning.. Rest assured, I am no robot either (but robots are cool though). I can safely say that I am loyal to a fault, close with my family members, have a couple of friend circles that many people describe nowadays as 'BFFs' (roll eyes emoji here). Although looking fancy with a PHD on my forehead, don't be alarmed. I got all my qualifications through luck and grabbed opportunities. I am not that smart. Most women here mentioned about wanting a 'fun and funny guy'. So let me put it out there; I am funny and have always been a joker in all of my social circles. However, the fun part depends on perspectives (and culture differences). These are the only things I am proud of myself: my athletism, me playing football, me living alone for many many years far from my family, my survival instincts, my ability to type this without looking, my body (as if!) and my lame jokes. OK just a little bit more; I don't have an obsessive compulsive disorder, nor do I have a perfectionism persona. I just like to see, neat and, in an orderly fashion. Oh I am not into fashion. I am still wearing the same pile of clothes from last year (but they are clean, maybe cleaner than yours lols jk). I just don't like to use my brain to think when choosing outfits every time. I like shoes, only to look at and window shop. There is a pair of shoes that I still use from 3 years ago. so can you see now? don't talk to me about loyalty. My own characteristics personify that word gleefully. Yes. That is one word I just used, and googled. So it's legit. Okay now I can sleep. AND I HATE BEANSPROUTS!

I love music, good food and the odd pint of fine ale! I am reasonably intelligent, hard working and can fix pretty much anything. I love living in the countryside and would like to meet someone who enjoys the same type of lifestyle. I would love to travel more but would really like someone to enjoy the experience with.

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Hello thank you for taking the time to read my profile,I am a normal man who is honest ,truthful and faithful and looking for the same , I do enjoy an occasional beer or glass of red wine but not to excess , I enjoy the sea and the country side and walking my two dogs meals out and meals in a visit to the cinema or a good film cuddled up on the sofa , I am a quite person and don’t like to raise my voice and dislike loud angry people I have had to deal with too many of them in my working life, I Speak and understand a few words in Russian but unfortunately had to put the learning on hold to learn Bulgarian as I have purchased a house in Bulgaria and plane to retire there in the next few years .

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Well mannered, read and travel. Serious, professional, Inteligent, inquisitive. Good sense of humor, creative, appreciation for arts. Like to travel and do so often. Also like languages, different cultures, ethnic food, live music. Confident, don't take myself too serious.

Not looking for housewife and not looking for obedient robot for a wife either. Prefer woman to be free thinking with ideas of her own. Who want equality in a serious relationship that leads to marriage and having family with shared responsibilities at home. If you like home made fruits and vegetables drinks or smoothies every week? Then I am your man. I will make it for you any time you want it at home. Very friendly down to earth person, knowledgeable, secular, liberal, loves shopping. I love driving my Tesla Model X P100D with clean emissions and not being damaging to our environment. If you cannot drive a car? I will help teach you to drive a car for your own good. Since our driving test is in any language. I have strong belief in equality between man and woman, most of my friends are different nationalities and of different religious beliefs. I am Apple Mac Pro computer user, so please stop ask me if I use Microsoft Windows PC. Answer is no. Proud owner of Apple iPhone 8 Plus 256 GB Gold Edition smartphone. I living alone with no children of own yet. Badly want to have a family. Not seeking housewife, as far as I see it. Only lazy man wants a housewife. I do my own household chores and gardening myself thank you. Playing violin or flute, love playing tennis every mid week and every weekend at local tennis club or at indoor tennis centre. Adore cooking at home when not at work, gardening, going to theatre, cinema, learning Russian and Japanese, DIY around the house. Watching movies via internet streaming.

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I am 21 my birthday is 30/11/96. Im an electrician and work away from home. I want to travel the world with someone who i can have fun with. Iv been thailand and thats has inspired me to get to see the big world we live in. I am 20 even if my profile says different 😄

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I am just a average man kind honest and caring and faithfull divorced and now living on my own, I am really just looking for women in the uk as I don't like to travel far, I like to go for walks, watch tv and listen to music. if you would like to know more please just ask........

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Hello,I am a doctor living in SW London.I have a good sense of humour and would definitely prefer to meet someone who who is happy and relaxed. .I have a calm temperament, and work hard .Cycling,music,books,playing guitar and wine are my hobbies.I

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I am a widower looking for a new chapter in my life. Still fit and active , like the simple things in life . I am honest and loyal and not into games. What you see is what you get. Seriously looking for a life partner.

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My upbringing in a 3rd world country (Seychelles) combined with my Chinese roots and spending years in the UK means I've witnessed real poverty around me and extremes of capitalism at the other end of the spectrum. This has given me a better perspective of life, a better appreciation of life, a more humble, rounded and tolerant approach to life. Friends would describe me as someone who is very knowledgeable, a good communicator and a good listener, very generous and goes overboard to please, friendly, witty, warm and reliable. I value friendship and will go to great lengths to preserve them. I believe strongly in family values and maintaining family ties. Life is about give and take, a bit of compromise here and there, turning the other cheek however difficult this may be. I love cooking, I'm actually passionate about food, there are few dishes I cannot cook to a high standard, losing myself in the cinema for a few hours, looking after my beautiful garden, dining out, overseas travel. I believe in 'less is more', that is the quality of life rather the quantity, so I tend not to participate and get involved in everything on offer, but try to be more selective. A frantic pace of life is just not for me. Find me on WeChat Anthony231063

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I like to live for the day as life is too short. I dont take myself too seriously and can laugh at myself. I like to travel and have been lucky enough to visit many parts of the world, but many more still to go. Im into sports etc and train in Muay Thai

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I am happy, smiling guy and want to show my chosen lady how special she is.. I am a divorced with two grown up children and one grand child. I have visited Thailand many times and respect the people, the culture, and enjoy the weather and countryside... I am a gentle person by nature and don't like when people get angry or violent.. I enjoy sports, reading, travelling and to go watch a movie.. Good luck to every one. Neil

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Have travelled to Moscow & Volgograd 10 years ago.. I found that Lenin's tomb was an eye opener to see...Stayed around Moscow for 3 days then and travelled in the "Metro station there" The 15 hours by bus to Volgograd is not recommended ha!ha!ha!

I am currently doing tough work as a labourer for a building contractor. I have a keen interest in technology since studying a BSc degree in computing. I am interested in foreign travel, languages, cultures and world affairs. I like to study, read books and keep fit, playing football, running 10km/half marathons and weights.

i am home loving, love being with good friends, like to laugh and make someone smile i own and run a Thai restaurant, that keeps me busy, i love it, the people the food of course, but i need someone to share my life with, nobody should be alone, if they can help it...

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I am romantic by nature but I don't give roses. Let them be where they are and grow them for the world to share looking at them. I also have a firm attitude towards righteousness. Love kisses and cuddles.. I'm easy to approach, I have very welcoming attitude, easy to talk to, simple, down to earth. Mature, child at other times. I go to gym. Natural tan complexion. I like all foods,You are what you eat! I take pride in being clean inside-out. From sushi to zigni to burritos its all gooood. NO- fast-food to the best of my ability :D